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There's No Such Thing as "Safe-Sex" For the Heart
Several years ago I read the book Unprotected, by campus psychiatrist Miriam Grossman. Dr. Grossman bravely reveals the magnitude of the...
Katie Hartfiel
Apr 5, 20183 min read
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Guilt? Shame? What Does God Have To Say?
The devil has a way of making a sin look like no big deal when you are thinking of committing it, but too big of a deal for God to...
Katie Hartfiel
Dec 8, 20163 min read
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Talking to Friends About Chastity- Without Losing Them
I am often approached by young people who begin our conversation with the phrase, “So I have this friend…” Many people want to reach out...
Katie Hartfiel
Aug 26, 20163 min read
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Vocation Fixation- What Does God Want?
I once heard a religious sister’s vocation story where she described her discernment process as the feeling that God was holding her...
Katie Hartfiel
May 7, 20163 min read
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5 Modesty Hacks to Save Your Wardrobe
“To defend his purity, Saint Francis of Assisi rolled in the snow, Saint Benedict threw himself into a thorn bush, Saint Bernard plunged...
Katie Hartfiel
Apr 26, 20162 min read
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15 Verses To Pray for Your (Future or Present) Spouse
Praying for my future spouse was one of the keys to my decision to stay pure as a teen. Ultimately, years later we discovered that my...
Katie Hartfiel
Aug 20, 20154 min read
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Parenting In The Age of Porn
“You might say, my kid isn’t looking at porn, and that’s fine. But porn is looking for your child. What are you going to do to protect...
Katie Hartfiel
May 12, 20154 min read
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Dance Like Someone Is Watching
I’ll never forget a conversation from a few years ago with a teen who was in anguish about her first middle school dance. It wasn’t...
Katie Hartfiel
Oct 9, 20143 min read
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Advice From The *Real* Love Experts (Part 2)
Conceal don’t feel. This is the mantra of the Snow Queen, Elsa, throughout every stage of life. That is, of course, until her climactic...
Katie Hartfiel
Jun 30, 20143 min read
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Advice From The *Real* Love Experts (Part 1)
Who doesn’t love Anna of Arendelle? It seems as if the epic tale of Frozen has captured an audience that ranges from age two to senior...
Katie Hartfiel
Jun 28, 20143 min read
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Hope For The Broken
Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all? As a teenager whose heart was beaten and bruised through the pain of...
Katie Hartfiel
Apr 17, 20144 min read
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5 Ways To Tell If You're In Love
She is the last thing you think of before you fall asleep and your first thought in the morning… Your heart races when you see him in the...
Katie Hartfiel
Mar 7, 20144 min read
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